Getting Out of Your Own Way – Part 2 of 6

In order to fully pursue the purpose God has placed on our lives, we are looking at how to avoid self-defeating behaviors.  Each week for six weeks we’re looking at one of the following:

To get out of you own way, you need to remember…

1. …your identity
2. …what you are doing
3. …your purpose
4. …the people
5. …to be strategic
6. …the outcome

This week:


While your identity is not wrapped up in the things you do, your purpose is wrapped up in the things you do. It’s where (to use a very old cliché) the rubber meets the road. Every action you take is either moving you towards your purpose or away from it. Not allowing self-defeating behaviors to sidetrack you takes very hard work.

I have previous entries regarding this topic.  The two most noteworthy are at the following links:  It Does Take Work and It Ain’t Easy  and A Change in Perspective or What I Learned from the Evil Baroness and Shirley Valentine

It’s important to establish who you are as separate from what you do.   But realize it is what you are doing (not your personality, good intentions, or strategic planning )that propels you forward into your purpose.

“You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do.”
(C.G. Jung)


Author: Pamela J. Dickey - Burn Bright Coaching

I'm a speaker, writer, personal and career coach, organizational advisor/consultant, and training facilitator. I own Burn Bright Coaching, and draw on my background as a personal and career development coach, certified corporate trainer, and ordained minister to equip my clients and audiences to discover and pursue their life’s purpose — personal, professional, and spiritual — to help them Burn Bright.

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